Tuesday, February 5, 2008

GET YOUR CONFIDENCE UP!

A man is not looking for a someone who is like everybody else. So stop trying to look like someone or talk like someone... The person you have to be is you! Be you! you are unique in your own way. Brush your hair the way it fits you best. Put on some lip gloss and spray on that Chanel No.5 and walk into the room like you are worth million bucks! Feel beautiful, thats when he will see it. Be confident, thats when he takes notice... Confidence women! It's like air!

USE A SEDUCTIVE TONE OF VOICE

Not too nasal, not too high, throaty and soft is most appealing. If you are naturally squeaky take it down a notch, you don't want to scare the poor dude away. If you REALLY like this guy, I suggest you practice a few times with your voice recorder function on your phone. But don't fake it... Just adjust your highs and lows...

WEAR CLOTHING THAT IS FASHIONABLE

Show just enough skin to make men want to see more. But don't overdo the skin thing. DO NOT BE VERY TOUCHY-FEELY! It may seduce them at first but in the long run, who wants to be with the girl who has been touched by everybody else? If you are naturally a good dresser go with your own style. Try to show him you have orginallity and that you are not just a trend setter. If you fail in the outfit department, get help or even go online to get ideas on outfits.

LEARN TO DANCE

Dancing is one of the most seductive things a girl can do. With our curves we can shake and twirl them into being obsessed with your body. Don't push it and scream, "SEX!" with your dance moves. Keep it sexy yet subtle. Most importantly work the hair. Sway your hair all over the place like a wild fire in the wind... But try not to get it into his face :)

LEARN TO WALK

Guys don't want a girl who walks just like they do, they want someone who is feminine.
Walk like a model, strong, confident, with a good swagger and with excellent posture. Never wore heels before? Its time to try a pair. But try not to go for aunty heels.... or slutty heels. A good 2 to 4 inch pair of heels will go just fine :)

WAIT

Wait until you can tell he is interested. The signs may not be obvious, but sometimes you have to go out on a limb; remember, most men find attention from women quite flattering. So once you think you have your man on the hook... start your magic and reel him in.

BE FLIRTY WITH YOUR TARGET

Let him know that you're interested, possibly by glancing or winking at him. When you talk to him, lean in and show some cleavage even if you don't have much. The point is to show that you're happy with your body and you don't mind that he gets a preview. But don't lean over too much. Be sexy not easy.

IGNORE HIM FOR A LITTLE WHILE

Give him the space and time to forget about the things that may have turned him off and fantasize about the good things. Never reveal too much of yourself because you almost certainly will turn him off. Another idea is to cancel plans you made with him and give a sincere, heartfelt apology. Leave him wanting more and not like he had enough... Don't expose all of you at one time. Bit by bit should do the trick. You should wow him every time. Guys get bored easily so spread out your dates. Don't meet him too often.

TOUCH HIM

Perhaps on the hand or wrist. This will subtly demonstrate that you are interested. A flirty tap with a laugh or a good bye hug is fine. Don't be too touchy as you would send out the wrong signals.